UK Adult Contacts, Leeds Perspective

Secret lovers are nothing new. As far back as Ancient Greece and Rome there have been tales of secret trysts, extra-marital affairs and mistresses. In those times, it always seemed as though it was the men that were having these affairs, and not women. Today we’re getting the opinion of UK Adult Contacts, Leeds user Philippa on the subject.

We started by asking about the increased equality for women, and whether the ability to have affairs is a good thing or not. Here’s what UK Adult Contacts, Leeds user Philippa had to say.
 
“Equality is a good thing. Men have their strengths and their weaknesses, and so do women. The trick is to play each to their strengths. We only read about men having affairs in the olden days because it was mainly men writing history. Until women were allowed to learn to read and write, history is mainly from the male perspective.
 
“Women have had secret lovers throughout time. Do you think men were having affairs with other men? Actually, some of them might have been, but most were with other women. Women like sex as much as men, we’re just not as in your face about it.”
 
Well that’s good news for our male users at least! UK Adult Contacts, Leeds user Philippa brought up an interesting point. The one about how the different sexes manage sexuality, and in it is a lesson I think.
 
All you men out there, don’t start your contacts with lewd messages, or by telling the other person what you want to do with them. Start slowly, gently and lead up to the good stuff.
 
We’re all on here for the same thing, but women approach it slightly differently than men. Men are quite happy to launch right in and get going with the good stuff. Most women can only do that with someone they like, or at least are attracted to.