Part-time BDSM with UK Adult Contacts Liverpool User Mike

 
Today we’re talking about kinks. This time, BDSM. An activity that has gained notoriety in popular media that is completely mistaken, as always. Portrayed as an act of cruelty on another, it’s actually an act of extreme care and attention. We’re going to talk to UK Adult Contacts Liverpool user Mike about it now.

So Mike, what does the audience on here think of BDSM?
 
“It’s difficult when you’re into something like this in the way I am. I’m not a hard core proponent of it, I like it every now and again. That means it’s no good me joining a dedicated BDSM site, because I would only use it once or twice a month. The people on here seem quite vanilla (in a good way), and some seem up for experimenting.
 
“The problem with bondage and other fetishes is one of understanding. When broaching the subject with someone new, you have to go very slowly. You have to explain what it is, how it works, and how the media got it all wrong. The first thought into most people’s heads in whipping and hanging someone on a rack. Pulp Fiction didn’t do the cause any favours either with the Gimp.
 
“If you’re wanting to try something like this on a UK Adult Contacts member, start slowly. Don’t use the word BDSM or bondage, suggest tying up, blindfolding or whatever, and don’t suggest if right off the bat. Get to know the person first, and try vanilla sex with them to get a grounding. Once someone knows you, they will be more receptive.”
 
UK Adult Contacts Liverpool user Mike there, thanks for that. He gives a somewhat unique perspective on a niche part of sex that we don’t touch on all that much. I think we should make efforts to change that in the future.